Site Reviews
Casual Sex Sites -
Adult Friend Finder – Adult Friend Finder is the biggest and the best right now, and with my guides you’ll meet tons of interested and hot women. This site doesn’t mince words, if a woman joins up she is obviously looking to get laid. There’s some spam, but if you’ve read my “How to spot a spammer”article then you already know how to deal with that and it shouldn’t be a big problem. There are millions of girls out there, and most of them seem to be on Adult Friend Finder.
Mate1 Intimate Dating – Because they use “Intimate Dating” right in the name, there is no doubt about what the women on this site are looking for. Women outnumber men by about 3 to 1 on this site, but if you follow the advice on these pages you will be in the top three or four percent of all male profiles and meet a TON of women. In terms of success rate, this may be the very best online dating service for actually meeting women who want to have sex right now, no questions asked. Filling out a profile is free, and then you can search and see how many women in your area have signed up before you decide whether to buy a membership.
Perfectmatch.com
is one of the best sites for me, and a great place to try my system. This is a real dating site, not a “whore finder” where you can meet quality women. Those women fall for m system just as easily as the sluts do, it just takes a little longer. If you have any interest in a serious relationship this is the best online dating site, and it works great for finding women to sleep with on a longer term basis than just the one night stands that come out of things like Adult Friend Finder.
Lavalife is one of the fastest growing sites, and they seem to advertise to a different crowd, targeting singles as a sitewhere they can enjoy friendships, dating, or intimate encounters. What this means to you is that you get a fresh crowd who probably has never seen your profile on any of the other sites (because they probably aren’t members at any other sites) and a fresh group of women who might have joined up to make friends but now cruise the “Intimate” section quite frequently. The sign up is free, and it’s definitely worth a premium membership if my recent success there is indicative of how things are at Lavalife. This site also fits in to the category below as a serious dating site where you can find a long term relationship if that’s what you are looking for.
True Love or Serious Dating Sites -
Matchmaker.com is a site for serious dating, though I have found a few casual hook ups on th site. They cater to the 30 and over crowd, mostly people who have their lives together and are looking to meet someone for a long term relationship. This isn’t Christian Singles, but don’t expect to get anywhere on a first date either. The nice thing is that most of these women have their own money and their own lives, sothey aren’t clingy, needy, or looking for an allowance. If you find yourself a cute cougar she might even buy you dinner!
Live (not online) Dating Services -
The only live dating service I have had any luck with in the United States is Great Expectations and they have been excellent. Five minute dating, speed dating, and most of the other bullshit you hear about live dating really isn’t worthwhile. If you live near a major metropolitan area (they have about 30 locations around the country) then check out Great Expectations and go sign up. If you are honest with them about the people you want to meet, you can meet some quality women there, but if you are just looking for a cheap lay they aren’t the best place. They are basically guaranteed to keep a steady stream of dates coming your way if you sign up and make a good video when you go in.
If you are just looking for casual sex from a live dating company, you are better off going overseas. The laws are so tight here that any service that hooks people up who are just looking for sex can be seen as encouraging prostitution, so none of the big companies will have anything to do with it. I’ve only tried one of those, and more for a change of pace than anything else, but it was awesome.
Anastasia is the Russian dating service I checked out, and it couldn’t have been better. I paid a few bucks for my membership, and spent a few bucks on buying flowers and crap for a few girls, (which goes right in to their pockets of course, there are no flowers) but I planned the whole thing around a trip to Moscow for business, and I had more beautiful young wmen that week than I have ever had in one weekend. Each one of them wants you to marry them, so you sort them out ahead of time as to which ones seem like they will sleep with you, and you arrange “dates” to meet them. If they don’t look like they are interested in anything physical right away, go on to the next one. It worked like a charm. Check them out at Anastasia Online, you’ll be amazed at the incredible number of stunning young women on the site.