Step 1
When I first got started in online dating I had memberships to the wrong sites and it took me a few months to find a better place to meet women. There are just too many networks and online dating sites, but I’m here to break some of tha down for you and help you find the best online dating site for you. It wouldn’t make a lot of sense to join a site that is focused on meeting people and making friends when you just want to find someone to sleep with would it?
The first thing you’ll need to do in order to find the site that is right for you is to be honest wth yourself. What do you want? A lifetime relationship? A friend? A casual dating scene? No strings attached casual sex? These are all valid choices, but there are different sites for each of them. Be honest with yourself, not only about what you want, but what you have to offer.
I maintain memberships at seven or eight different dating sites most of the time, and they serve my various purposes very well. I recommed trying three dating sites to get started. You might want to go take a look at the sites from my site reviews page, and check out anything that seems interesting, maybe even create a free profile and have a look around. Once you have decided on three sites that look right for you, join up and buy a premium membership, free profiles can’t even get you an email address from that cute girl you just found by searching for hot 22 year old girls in your area.
You’ll find more complete information on the site reviews page, but there are a few sites that I highly recommend for each category. I’ve tested these sites myself, and maintain a membership at most of them.
Casual Sex Sites -
Adult Friend Finder – Adult Friend Finder is the biggest and the best right now, and with my guides you’ll meet tons of interested and hot women. This site doesn’t mince words, if a woman joins up she is obviously looking to get laid. There’s some spam, but once you’ve read my “How to spot a spammer”article in Step 3 then you already know how to deal with that and it shouldn’t be a big problem. There are millions of girls out there, and most of them seem to be on Adult Friend Finder.
Mate1 Intimate Dating – Because they use “Intimate Dating” right in the name, there is no doubt about what the women on this site are looking for. Women outnumber men by about 2 to 1 on this site because it’s free for women (like ladies’ night at a bar), and if you follow the advice on these pages you will be in the top three or four percent of all male profiles and meet a TON of women. In terms of success rate, this may be the very best online dating service for actually meeting women who want to have sex right now, no questions asked. Filling out a profile is free, and then you can search and see how many women in your area have signed up before you decide whether to buy a membership.
Perfectmatch.com
is one of the best sites for me, and a great place to try my system. This is a real dating site, not a “whore finder” where you can meet quality women. Those women fall for my system just as easily as the sluts do, it just takes a little longer. If you have any interest in a serious relationship this is the best online dating site, and it works great for finding women to sleep with on a longer term basis than the one night stands that usually come out of things like Adult Friend Finder.
Live (not online) Dating Services -
The only live dating service I have had any luck with in the United States is Great Expectations and they have been excellent. Five minute dating, speed dating, and most of the other bullshit you hear about live dating really isn’t worthwhile. If you live near a major metropolitan area (they have about 30 locations around the country) then check out Great Expectations and go sign up. If you are honest with them about the people you want to meet, you can meet some quality women there, but if you are just looking for a cheap lay they aren’t the best place. They are basically guaranteed to keep a steady stream of dates coming your way if you sign up and make a good video when you go in.
If you are just looking for casual sex from a live dating company, you are better off going overseas. The laws are so tight here that any service that hooks people up who are just looking for sex can be seen as encouraging prostitution, so none of the big companies will have anything to do with it. I’ve only tried one of those, and more for a change of pace than anything else, but it was awesome.
Anastasia is the Russian dating service I checked out, and it couldn’t have been better. I paid a few bucks for my membership, and spent a few bucks on buying flowers and crap for a few girls, (which goes right in to their pockets of course, there are no flowers) but I planned the whole thing around a trip to Moscow for business, and I had more beautiful young wmen that week than I have ever had in one weekend. Each one of them wants you to marry them, so you sort them out ahead of time as to which ones seem like they will sleep with you, and you arrange “dates” to meet them. If they don’t look like they are interested in anything physical right away, go on to the next one. It worked like a charm. Check them out at Anastasia Online, you’ll be amazed at the incredible number of stunning young women on the site.