Step 3
If you are going to meet real women, hopefully women who want to meet and/or sleep with you, it’s important that you don’t waste your time and energy on the pitfalls, including spammers, call girls, gay men posing as women, and women who “just want to make friends”. These things are your enemy, and the are common, but they are easy to avoid with a few simple tips.
First let’s take a look at their profile -
1. If the picture looks like this one
and they are looking for everything (dating, friends, casual sex, men or women or couples or transvestites, every kind of sex with any age person etc) then you are definitely not looking at a real person. Think about it from a spammers perspective. They want a super hot pic so that a million guys will want to contact them, and they want as many people to find them in a search as possible, so they set the profile up so that it looks like they are compatible with everyone. I know it’s hard to block such a hottie from contacting you, but don’t waste your time on this one, she’s not real.
On sites that are obviously just about sex, like Adult Friend Finder, you’ll find a lot of real pics do not show the woman’s face, like this one -
At sites that are more about “dating” or “meeting people”, you will find people with unprofessional pics, often with multiple people and a caption like “I’m the one on the left”, are real people. If it looks like it was taken in a modeling studio, or by a model photographer, and the girl is stunning, it is NOT real, don’t waste your time.
Call girls and escorts are also easy to sort out, they’ll be attractive, into anything, want to meet you, and obviously be more into you than they should be. If a girl ever asks you for money on an online dating site you should probably just block her and ignore her forever, there is too much free love going around to be paying for it.
Men posing as women for cybersex are also easy, they won’t want to meet you in person or talk on the phone where you could hear the obviously manly voice, and they will also usually be smoking hot 21 year old girls who are into everyone in their profiles.
Women who just want to make friends are fairly rare on sites where sex is obviously the reason to sign up, but they can be quite common at the less wild sites. You may have to meet a few of these women to get a feel for which ones have potential, but I suggest you try to sleep with them as the best method of finding out whether they are interested. You’ll find that some of these women who just want to “meet new people” don’t mind sleeping with some of those new people. If you go for it and they turn you down, just be nice to them but don’t waste much time. Making friends is good, because they may introduce you to their hot friend who is more adventurous.
Us some common sense and think about whether it makes sense that this is a real person who is looking for love and thinks you might be it. If she’s 20 years younger than you, smoking hot, and not interested in you for your money, then she’s probably not for real, no matter how charming you think you are.